Korean parents against interracial dating

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We were only willing to wait as long as a year and a half so when I talked to my parents again, they changed their opinion that they are now completely against me marrying a white guy and since he's in the Navy, they said they are 100% sure he's going to cheat on me. And then they forced me to choose between my fiancee and the whole family (we were talking via phone all the time) and it literally broke my heart.They wanted me to come back into their house, picked a guy for me and have me marry him even though I don't have any feelings for him. I couldn't answer that because I didn't want to break their hearts so I told them that it was such a childish, selfish and foolish question.

My dad even threatened to disown me and will have me kicked out of his own funeral one day. They know how good he is inside and how polite he is to them but they still couldn't get past the fact that he's caucasian.

They're so sure he's going to mess our lives up, that he's going to cheat on me and will leave me for a prettier girl.

As for me, I know he will not because we've been through a lot more than they know.

We've broken each other's hearts, we went through separations for months at a time (as long as 6 months) and I finally know that he will stay true to me and will be able to provide everything for me.

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DEC 2009 - I have been with my caucasian boyfriend for the past 5 years and we broke up a few years ago thanks to the pressure my parents put on me, saying that he had no future, no money, he's going to cheat on me, etc.

But despite everything, we got back together again.

I'm turning 24 next year, he'll be 25 and we're planning on getting married within 6 months to a year from now, but when I told my parents that he proposed to me, they were furious!

First of all, they know I've been together with this guy for a long time but I thought they might get softer throughout all these years but boy was I wrong.

They live in a different country along with the rest of the family and relatives so I'm the only one here in the US.

I understand why they would get mad and not trust my fiancee since my mom only met him once, plus he's in the Navy so it's a little hard for us to go across the globe to get together.

My parents originally said that it's OK for me to want to marry him as long as we wait 3 years.