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The next thing that happens after you break up with someone – this is after the tears, the drama, the denial, the anger, the acceptance, maybe a sneaky shag, more anger, more acceptance and then closure – is moving on.
Does it really matter which one of you starts dating first and does it that he’s dating?
A little bit of bruised ego is natural but if you become consumed by his new relationship or exploits, it may be time to ask whether you’re really over him, and if you are; what is it about your own life that makes this news so unbearable.
Often you’ll find that the reason it bothers you is because you have taken his actions as some sort of reflection on you and the past you shared together.
It is easy to want to compare yourself to your ‘replacement’ and wonder what he sees in her, but the reality is that you’ll probably never know and you’re burning up energy better used elsewhere.
Some people start dating to force themselves to move on, some to bury the pain and yes, some are just ready to jump back in the saddle.
Whatever it is that governs their choice, you’re unlikely to know what that is, and you really don’t need to.
You should be focusing on yourself and your own future rather than worrying about his.
Whilst it’s unfair to generalise, some men are very much ‘out of sight, out of mind’ and because some won’t shed tears, hide at home and bury their heads in tubs of icecream, they will propel themselves back into the dating pool and ‘get on with things’ rather than dwell on the emotional fallout from the breakup.
Whatever his reason, he’s getting on with his own life whilst you’re focusing your energy on thinking about him. You may think it’s too soon, and maybe it is, but that’s not for you to worry about.
Instead of thinking ‘Oh sh*t, the bastard can’t have cared that much if he can get over me so quickly!
’ remind yourself that if he has truly dashed out too soon, it will probably end up with a negative result.
If you have had the chance to lick your wounds, heal, learn and move on, you stand a better chance of happiness.