Vibe dating site
Vibe dating site
I have a good female friend who said to me the other day, “I will not date again until there is a social revolution”.
It’s so fascinating how the issue of relationships and dating in the world of hook-up culture is an issue for so many people. In my experience working with clients one on one, there seems to be a vast gap in the difference between what is actually appearing in my client’s romantic landscape, and the deeper yearnings of the soul, that create a relative amount of concern that leads to a distracting, nagging suffering.
To be a Brooklyn healer working in energy medicine, holistic health issues often open a doorway to how people cope with everyday life in the modern world. Relationships are so important in discovering who we are and where we are in our own personal evolution, and yet there is absolutely a consensus that the world is changing, and what have become common practices in dating seem to be, well, sad, to a lot of people.
If one is simply looking at mass, at norm, we have evolved into a culture of instant gratification, inebriation, dehumanization in online dating sites that make dough off of your compulsions. At the end of the day, it all comes down to vibrational alignment.
There is a lack of communication skills, honesty and integrity, and it’s much easier to be irresponsible with another humans emotions when they are just a picture on a screen. If you choose this story as the way the world simply is, and yet have resistance to the game itself, you have already succumbed to your defeat.
Oh it’s beneath us to compromise, and everyone sleeps around, a lot. You have enslaved yourself and are energetically vibrating pain from that place of resistance.
And hey, there is always someone better that might be out there. People don’t realize that they are always attracting partners.
The thrill of the new and shiny replaces delving into depth. If you are attracting wrong partners, be aware that it is hidden, unloved parts of yourself that is doing the attracting and you will continue to attract partners in this vein until the lesson is learned, and new choices are made.
Our parents’ version of love wasn’t so great, and it may seem that instead of evolving our sense of interdependence in partnership, we have completely backed off of it and date for the sake of some petty thrill that serves as a momentary placeholder for connection. Action steps are one way to communicate to the universe what you are willing to accept. Vibrational alignment with the highest version of what you want from a partner, must come first.
Is there is a part of you that feels you have to lower yourself to a game you don’t want to play, in order to feel a sense of connection?
Then from an energetic perspective, your vibration is out of alignment.
My sisters would read the first paragraph and be floored at what I am talking about. Because where you place your awareness and attention, whether positive or negative is exactly what you will call into your physical reality. Then focus on it’s opposite until you are vibrating with it, attracting it into your reality.
In fact, they are simply aghast at what my friends and I describe as commonplace. Deciding that what’s happening en mass is not life enhancing for your unique journey, is no new thing. And there is a lesson in all of this dating nonsense: when you know what you don’t want, you automatically know what you do want because every idea and particle of life has an equal and opposite form. If you keep focusing on the struggle of modern dating, addicted to the pain, suffering and victimhood, then you are the hamster and the conductor of your own wheel.